Haha, no surprises that there are differing opinions. Lord help us if we all liked exactly the same things.
The Crossie is all-day comfortable. You can ride fast or take it easy and the miles can just vanish yet it is equally at home in the twisties. Yes, the suspension could be better for this (the same for every VFR) but the wider bars give you a lot more leverage for turning and your view ahead is better with a higher head height. And despite the higher drag from the upright riding position, I've seen well over 50mpg (imperial gallons) at high cruise speeds which gives nearly 250 miles to a tank.
Looks aren't something that bother me too much, it's the bike between my legs that's important and the VFR800X, which has exactly the same engine as the 800F, ticks my boxes for what I need it for.
68000 miles, never failed to start first touch and with nary a cough or a splutter, all weathers, all year round for 6 years.
However, I shall be sad to see her go come the spring as my commuting days are over and I cannot justify keeping her.
YMMV, as always.