No responses, eh.
I guess I didn't really expect any, but it was good to get my ideas down in list form.
I went with ordering the No-mar mount/demount bar, a few of their spoon bars, the large cone balancer kit, some valves, and stick on weights, lube, etc. They came in 2 or 3 days after I ordered them. The harbor freight tire changer and motorcycle attachment were ordered the day before the no mar and I have yet any notification from HF at all. I guess you get what you pay for as well with customer service. I'm almost wishing I would have just bought the whole kit from No-mar at this point. Ah well. maybe I'll do that in the future after I 'F' up a set of rims, but for now I'm attempting to do this correctly, but a little on the cheap.
Next steps:
#1 Build a basic balancer out of some tube stock and some shielded bearings so I can use the all thread and No-mar cones for balancing.
#2 Wait for the HF equipment to show up at the door.
#3 Change my tires when it arrives.